Just Be vs. Hurry Up & Wait

Patience is a virtue that most of the western world acknowledges, but doesn’t at all practice. While the LJPC team was in Malawi we spent a good amount of time waiting. One time, while waiting for lunch, Mr. Bob Kennedy (as he was affectionately called by many Malawians) leaned over and said, “I get it! We’re not really waiting for anything. We are just…here.”

After only a few days in Malawi, Bob had learned what so many Malawians have come to know as normal. Just being is enough. Waiting with one another is being with each other.

While Hailey and I were getting on the tube yesterday she told me I needed to stand to one side of the escalator because people were trying to get around me. They were rushing. She said, “I guess were back to the world were time is kept and people are always in a hurry.”

She was right. The west is a world where waiting is seen as wasting. And it’s a shame. We don’t know how to just be.

Tube Station in London: Waiting=Wasting in the Western Frame of Mind